The human brain is a liar. It wants comfort and certainty and its afraid of discomfort and change. It will make assumptions not rooted in logic, but to avoid fear.
Researchers have shown that our memories are no more reliable than a politician’s word. This is because our brains don’t understand truth in the same way that we think of it. Its truth is based on our personal biases and perceptions about the world, which themselves are subject to cognitive errors every day.
In simple, you're living your life based on stories that are no longer relevant, probably not even true and are probably making you sabotage your chances of reaching your goals. Furthermore, you're speaking a language internally and maybe even externally that totally contradicts most of what you think you want in the future.
So, are you ready to learn how to play the game of life?